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Parents Who Work Away

Learning to Make Distance Work: What Families Across Sectors Can Teach Us Different industries have different cultures, working patterns, risks and resources. There are organisations doing excellent work to support employees and families in particular sectors, and some sectors have developed genuinely valuable resources over many years. Because the thing I am interested in isn't the sector. It is what happens to a family when work repeatedly takes one parent away from home. And how do families who have been doing this for years make it work?
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The Space Between Distance and Connection: When Work Takes a Parent Away

For many years, I didn’t have the words to describe the life we were living. We weren’t a military family. We weren’t divorced. We weren’t in a traditional long-distance relationship. Yet for weeks, sometimes months at a time, my husband and I were parenting from different countries while trying to hold family life together. There…
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choosing to take an unaccompanied tour is like walking through mountains

Should We Take an Unaccompanied Tour? How Foreign Service Families Decide

Choosing to take an unaccompanied tour needs careful consideration. This article encourages you to think about more than the assignment itself.
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Andrea Schmitt shares how a job that requires frequent travelling can be possible with kids

Balancing Frequent Work Travel and Family Life

Andrea Schmitt shares how a job that requires frequent travelling can be possible with kids In episode #88 of Holding the Fort Abroad, we talk with Andrea Schmitt, clinical psychologist, expat coach, and founder of Global Girl Coach. Having experienced life as both an accompanying spouse and holding the fort parent, Andrea understands first-hand what…
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Long-Distance Relationships and Love Languages

Loving Across Borders: How to Use the 5 Love Languages in Your Long-Distance Relationship

Living apart for work or global mobility? Discover how the five love languages can help couples stay emotionally connected in long-distance relationships across borders and time zones. Right now, my husband is in Mexico and I’m in the UK. Which means a lot of our marriage and parenting currently happens on WhatsApp:  think messages, photos,…
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Split location families can build a strong unit

Families where one partner is away a lot for work or is living and working in another country for long periods don't often realise they are under more pressure than families who don't have this lifestyle.

However, I truly believe that split location families can build a strong unit, be a happy family with happy individuals even when living apart. I have witnessed families who are living this reality.